THAT is a great link! I bookmarked it. You're right as I have really started thinking along those lines already. As my wife and I start this retirement transition, I'm going to start taking on that same position- I'm getting to old to risk shortening my life over things over which I have no control. Sometimes confirmation that you're not the only one suffering is healing enough. Tx!
Now, instead, I'm gonna start focusing my anger on my sports teams. Oh wait, I can't control that either! dammit! :-D