Sorry walknman, just got the phone call I've been waiting for. I have to run and play taxi driver for an hour or so.
Perhaps someone else can walk you through the auto connect setup. If not, I will be happy to when I get back. It's not difficult.
I'll check back.
PS - If anyone else wants to help, remember to check if walknman's network is broadcasting its ID or not. I usually turn the "Broadcast Network ID" setting off as an added security feature.