Whoah! I sure am glad to hear this!!!
I've been associated with guys who hide the truth from their wives. It's usually based on shame but underneath the shame is fear of not being lovable. This obviously leads to all sorts of possibilities, none of which speak well to the strength of union.
Trying to help men with these issues can be as difficult as bringing a denture to bleed.
Thanks to you for clarifying.
Help me out on this last bit of confusion if you will:
I'ts mostly a joke about the wife not knowing.
You don't have to answer that, I'm just teasing. And it is due to the fact that I married an MSW who was a clinical therapist for years in the field of social work. She knows I can be an ass and accepts me as the "whole" that I am. lol