Although I didn't ever learn her last name, I corresponded with nufced many times over the past 8 years or so. She was a great help and tremendous source of support through a personal tragedy, yet she never mentioned or looked for sympathy through her own difficulties.
Although i knew her only through the cyber world, I considered her a friend and a very classy lady. She will be sorely missed...
"Consider for a moment how stupid the average person is...then remember that half the population is even stupider." - George Carlin