It's kinda like abstinence and ... ...and abortion. If one abstains then they don't have to make excuses for something they didn't intend to accept responsibility for in the first place. "What if it had never been chosen to be implanted? Is it okay to doom a "soul" to an eternity of nothing?" We make the "choice" - the baby doesn't. "Clump of cells" (8 weeks) www.winmentalhealth.com/images/embryo_photo_abortion_help.jpg