MORALS...
Stick to your morals Paul. Trust me when I tell you that money is the very root of most evil. I've seen it first-hand via lawsuits, inheritance(s), etc.
That said, telling the truth is one "dilly of a pickle" when you are smack-dab in the middle of the truth and a family member's life being changed forever. Talk about stress! LOL
It's very hard to "walk the walk" or as Johnny Cash put it so very well... "Walk The Line" at times.
I guess we just have to be happy that we "woke-up" each day, and do the best we can, letting our hearts'/values/morals guide the way, hopefully they are right. :)
