Yah, that is a tough one. Dear younger pays her CC off every month. I don't like that she runs it up every month. I can see her cash/debit account but not her CC account. So I know how much she pays, just not for what.
Dear spouse got in a spat with ex-spouse as far as credit card bills. Spouse pulled a favor to get an 18 year old CC and a Checking Acct/Debit card not on spouses credit, don't ask me how. And younger has horrible credit, go figure, too many times in the hospital. blood clots.
Spouse called ex-spouse some six months ago and got a "did the bill get paid"? That is not the point, it is a relationship, so we know who is using the card. But there is nothing we can do at this point, it is not in our name.
It may not be on our credit, but is our relationship. So I agree, credit abuse is still abuse. And if I call about the subject, EX just hangs up. Thief.
