I stand corrected. It's a statement (rather than a query) with a question mark on the end of it, so I should've considered it a question.
A fair answer. Not the nicest one necessarily but definitely fair.
I can do "nice", but choose not to in certain situations. And when I'm constantly under fire, "nice" is a bit difficult to conjure up. I'm doing good to supress "really, really hostile" at times, or at least redirect it.
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