Hey Qui-Gon Kagi
I read your long story addressed to pennies, I am sure pennies will answer it more competently. just I felt like sharing my thoughts that may be little helpful.
I have got couple of mini accounts wiped out trying to trade divergences. and one day it occured to me
` Divergences do show up in indicators when reversal happen, but it is not necessary that whenever we see divergence, reversal is going to happen`
you know what I mean, if you don`t get it, please read the sentense again. and try to think about it.
I do not have statistics, but I am sure if collected, we will come to know, more than 50% of the times when divergences show up in indicators, they do not lead to reversal. why I say that? it is common saying, more than 90% traders lose money in markets. How, why? this world is full of intelligent people. still people lose money. surely there will be more other important reasons for this failure, but one of the minute reason is trading divergences.
what I have come to know for myself, If you want to be successful in markets, do not initiate trades only on one parameter. you must have a set of different parameters that should be required to be satisfied.
recently I have been concentrating of waves and their counting, it is a powerful stuff for success but I have come to know, if you will trade only on the basis of waves, you are gonna fail. there are many many variations of waves, waves go into extentions, truncations and what not. different people will count same waves differently.
net result I have concluded for myself is set of different parameters.
I am not expert on subject, rather a kindergarton level student. but I felt empathy reading your post and thought to share my experience.