I have children very much like that 9 year old. What you folks have shown in your posts the other day have shown me what kind of people you really are. Buddie too - unbelievable lack of compassion and understanding. Strength? A sociopath / psychotic? That is strength? All the equivalency you tried to coldly argue is false equivalency and displays a deep lack of understanding or values, or, at least a world view and humanity that I find deeply offensive. Sorry, can't hang with that......