Well, some people their egos feed off the posts they leave in forums (doubt it stops as a result). I am tired of it as well. I know full well what i got involved with . . . need no lectures nor gotchas on it.
Not that it will matter to you much BUT I have a lot of respect for you. I'm a bit humbled into silence here. Truth is, we all need to do a little soul searching and leave our pain and disappointments at the door. For all its faults, INIX is the closest thing to making a go of it as I've ever seen (except one that I have followed for three years that is just about to break out and come to life in the signage business).
I want this to work out for all of us and I know that I've been very passive/aggressive because it's been hard to go down into hell and sit for a while.