Lee, so true. It's taken me 5 years to start to get it right. After trying other ways that do work for others, I had to be flexible enough to adapt them all to my own unique personality/psychological idiosyncracies. (Just short of calling myself pathological) I can't trade stock, for example. Too much anxiety, I need options to hold me back and help me structure a time frame and a plan. Like I need to keep a job, so I can eat 3 meals and drink water.... btw, your posts have been so normal lately, are you ok? :)