and what i am trying to point is why not be proud of what we have as better then others instead of showing the world we are same as others lets show them we are unique is that a problem the whole world is watching us at this point nobody says my daughter is a usual girl we all think that our daoughter is more beautiful then someone elses that is all my point probably i went the extra mile to explain but i was expressing my understanding of posts just like you understand thing the way you want