Lucky, in the post I am responding to, you thanked me for doing this. And now you are complaining about the fact that it was done.
Explantation enough, I think, for why you were not included in the "circle of trust" as you call it. Sometimes one has to look at a bad situation and make a rational decision (based on a clear-headed assessment of the risks associated with doing this or doing that or doing nothing) as to what you are going to do and then pursue that decision, with contingency plans to address reasonably foreseeable scenarios as and when they occur.