Ninja7, I know some folks that have two kids like that, but they are able to talk. I believe it was one of the things that destroyed their marriage. I give you and your wife big credit for staying the course and taking the best care of your daughter. Let's make it happen so you can have a little easier life just for starters.
Hey Ninja :-) we are family and therefore we help each other and one thing is it to hear what someone is telling and only to be there with thoughts and prayers and ears! I truly believe she is an angel!! Take Care!!!