My leg never tingles when a black person speaks eloquently. When a black woman said she wanted to ax me I corrected her. When she said she wanted to hold my testis I told her how to ask to see her tests. And she did not seem offended. My job was to bring her up to speed.
In the middle of your story was a link to: Your Black World Coalition. Personally I'm offended there is another coalition that I am not welcome in or benefit from because of my ethnicity.
ps: don't open the link unless you turn your speakers down..