Just don't know which is worse or better.. i just wish had time with her in more of a mother daughter way.. she did not now how to do that.. I struggle with two of my 5 daughters.. just personalities differences... but it hurts a mom a lot.. kids just go on their merry way.. and dont really try.. other 3 try and we have worked all out.. good relationship.. more fun fun fun.. I know.. Lets go Parasailing!!