Your paternal grandma and mine that just passed are the same person almost. LOL Mine was almost 60 when I was born and already had 5 grandchildren starting at 19 years old going down. She was a farm girl also. My grandpa passed when I was 6 and she lived on the farm for another 6+ years before she moved into town for the winter, then she stayed at that same 3rd floor apartment for over 23 years(She was 95 when she had to move to an assisted living facility)