tonycajjo, I am the mod on several forums so maybe I can explain.
If you click on the hot link upper right called [Settings] then [My Removed Posts] you can review the exact reason it was deleted, and WHO did the deletion. Sometimes it is NOT the forum moderator who did it.
Next to each deleted post there is a link to have the post reviewed and possibly restored. Often times the post will be restored if you can offer the correct reason.
If that fails you can take your case directly to the site Admins. If you are not a paying member you don't have instant messaging, but you can ALWAYS contact the Admins. Use IM and NOT the forums to make contact.
So my suggestion is that IF you are having a problem then use the current system to deal with it. But trying to discuss deleted posts on the forum is, of itself, another TOU violation. If you don't work within the rules, I can guarentee you, that you will become even more frustrated.
No one likes post deletions. But there are valid reasons for them.
Good Luck, and Be Happy! This may be the last good weather weekend for year 2009.
VV