Just be certain if you do seek out any free advice that they at least ask you what state you will be operating out of. Ya wanna be sure the advice you get is not simply Fed based.....which is what u tend to find more so w/free sites. Then u may find they'll wanna charge you when/if they do indeed ask ya what state you're in...that's how they tend ta make their $$$. Just my 2 pennies.
& Sherri....I was gonna ask ya the same if ya don't mind sharen (& no, I'm not calling u Sharon ;)~ a lil personal info here.
& I tend ta be in agreement w/the CaT on the issue of pampering....as long as the ankle biter doesn't begin showin signs of bein King or Queen, u can never pamper too much....but if u ever do begin ta see those signs, that's a sign in & of itself that u need ta pull back a bit. & w/re to the very lil one's, we over here never did subscribe to the Furber method....we generally always picked up the lil ones to comfort'em when they cried. Ya just gotta be real careful at bedtime tho w/that however or else u may just find yourself sleepin w/a 4-5 yr old :0