lol, eugene, you "dog" your own posts by the way they are written.
You got to understand that in this internet chat environment, words are taken at their meaning. There is no room for further communication from reading body language, hearing voice inflections, or seeing facial expressions. This coupled with contradictory remarks within the same sentence makes for an easy target.
May I suggest the preview feature provided by iHub. It gives the opportunity to reflect before publishing.
ttfn,