I would never have any interest in having a F2F with you. Nor would anyone who I consider a friend. That is one of the things about 2D communication, in 3D I keep as much distance as possible between myself and slimeballs. In 2D it can be interesting to poke them with sticks.
And I have no need to save face, in our last tete a' tete you proved exactly what you are. It isn't exactly holding a grudge, it is more of recognizing a POS for what he is.
And, when you talk about an associate of yours wanting a F2F with someone, it *is* a veiled threat.