Well very few can actually make a profit in FX. The rest surrender their accounts to those that can.
As far as finding others try www.meetup.com There are TONS of groups out there. Most FX groups you find will most likely be averagers using systems that they purchased.
May not be bad to just go to a few meetings to see what their deal is about, but don't drink the kool-aid. If it seems too good to be true it probably is. And remember that any of those systems you can build yourself for free, just learn the methodology and decide if you think it will work for you.
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