DTT, Bob, other Northwesterner's...
I'm an avid golfer. We have a couple really nice courses close by that are fairly reasonable. We could always do a golf/lunch outing and just have a barbeque at the house. Plenty to do there besides golf... like landscaping!
In all seriousness, just name the place. I dont mind driving a little ways to get together.
Downtown Tacoma has a couple nice museums and restaurants that make for a really fun afternoon. We could even catch a Tacoma Rainiers game, or for that matter, a Mariner's game.