brooklyn13, Never i hope where it is so abominably misplaced as yours was. Since you visit here so infrequently you likely missed one little story:
In my local one crowded Saturday afternoon a young guy was laughing loudly while making a big deal about the controversy around same-sex marriage. This was many months ago before we finally grew up about it. He yelled to the crowd, "Is anyone here in favor of gay marriage." Silence. The worst kind of silence which never should be. As i had seen it before, in other places about other matters - SILENCE. So, as in another different case, i spoke out.
After a minute or so, he being emotionally upset and not coping, he started to come for me. LOL A number intervened while i was figuring how exactly to step aside and trip him.
He was an asshole on that matter. Just as you are on this one.