Meatloaf, :), at least you're young in heart, thanks for the response, I was unaware of the option to filter responses to people on ignore, i'll change that, and yes i did have that person on ignore, so i suppose it was working as intended.
Being an old database programmer, i've been painfully aware during the development of windows environment that they have a limited ability to do anything like I used to do ....
what language is this site programmed in? mind telling me?