Its funny you use engagement as an example. The planning might begin immediately on those, but normally engagements are a year out or maybe more. Few people rush into marriage. And sometimes things come up that affect the wedding date, and you adapt and make changes, then after meticulous planning and execution it happens. So maybe the bride wants planning and info, but no bride flips out if she's not married in a few weeks. You need to relax. There have been enough obvious confirmations to step back and trust Dr. Dalton, baby you gettin married.