OT, Ann, Your idealism is shared by most folks in this country and I spend too much time reflecting on 911. It's really too much for me. I think I had a rougher time this year than last.
About your son. My prayers for him and you. I've experienced that and it's terrible. Been over 20 years now and still hurts. But, God has a plan and your son, and mine, are part of it.
God Bless You,
Dick