jj, the "real you" is a real improvement. Your comment about "keep em guessing" reminds me of a family story about my uncle who had a business. When he would pass competitors on the street, they would ask him, "so 'holycow', how's business?" His reply? "Eh". Let them figure out what that means.
P.S. A round to attendees at the next meeting. Now we are talking an incentive.