Wish I could IMP, But house was supposedly sold, close on 15th, which turned out to be unrealistic date, they could never close that soon with the type loan they went for, and were NOT advised to not use that date and screw everybody. Anyway, movers came yesterday, so I'm now screwed. Buyer's realtor (who keeps screwing things up, got around to paperwork late on "closing" day, to ask for one month extension. But turns out, they were too high of income for that loan (Mr. Screwup talked them into switching to it.)
On the other front, with Hubbie's passing, I now need to pay 60% down. Not going to have the equity check from this house for the new house's closing, no life insurances will be in time either.
Anyway, daughter (who I flew in Monday, realizing his living will made death imminent)and I are working day and night to get house cleaned and be out of here, get her down to new area where she's never been, to see if she still wants to move into the area, then fly her back home, all while running cremation and pickup tasks, closing local accounts, estate, and start notifying all gov agencies that pay him annuities. If the house sales hadn't been going on, yeah, perhaps just time to grieve or withdraw. But that luck is not in the cards. But thanks for your condolences and emotional support. I'm also truly sorry for your losses also.
AI
