well, if we are writing essays on emotion, here's mine:
well, a lofty goal. hard for us ex-college baseball players and division I USA men's rugby players to always abide by. the spirit of competition, intensity, deep passion for cherished beliefs and a desire to work hard and win take over.
people in the world wired like me can be abrasive at times. what rugby culture taught me is that when someone punches you in the nose in the ruck, the better response is not to hit back, but buy the man a pint of beer after the match and sing songs together. no harm intended when all play the game without malice in the heart. sometimes, our emotions get the better of us when we are competitors at heart.
different personalities make the world go round. my wife is a nurse and should be a full fledged member of NVC, and her personality is perfect for her profession as a nurse and mother. and a mentor to me to tone it down when not on the field of play. for 8 years she has been a good force for that. coming from an english rugby family herself, she also understands the times when hyperbole, sharp words, and passion are needed to help a team cross the goal line. as long as the brotherly love is there when the game is finished.
sometimes I get that game face on with F&F. I have a lot of money at stake, and reputation among a select few. i ask in advance some grace for when I may vent on this board with others that are in this game with me.
good luck to all
