You are not in a 'zone' - either of you.
You are stuck in an infinate 'do-loop' to use old computer programming lingo. You are both just saying the same things, over, and over, and over, and over, and over,...
At this stage - it is not adding anything useful to a discussion, and is clogging up the board for actual discussion.
“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.”
- Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy