They are not "my" people. But they are people. And when someone gives them equivalent military power like we give to the Israelis maybe then you will have a point. Not before. Till then, they are being killed, terrorized, under an occupation, and suppression and they are fighting the best they can for freedom. And since Israeli civilians elect the people who make the decisions to kill them and suppress them, these civilians have made themselves legitimate military targets.
"When fascism comes to America, it will be wrapped in the flag and carrying a cross." - Sinclair Lewis
"Those Who Would Sacrifice Liberty for Security Deserve Neither." -Benjamin Franklin