anon.10 Monday, 06/27/11 07:45:17 AM Re: happydog post# 22198 Post # of 42786 Hapydog, thank you so for your concern. for some reason, i just don't get over things easy. i have asked God to heal my heart and mind and forgive me. Yes, the family has put a burden on my heart, but i lost my beloved husband a year & 1/2 ago and then about 5 or 6 weeks ago, I lost my sistr-in-law of over 30 yrs quite suddenly. went into the hospital with what we thought was an infection on a Monday and by Thursday she was dead. She had melanoma cancer, which we did not know had returned. all of my losses have been very sudden and unexpected. and of course, my Alhziemer's mother lives with me. she is visiting a sister at the moment to give me a break and I am by my self. not really a good thing. sorry to spill out my life at the moment but it is a sad one.