The problem is that everyone has a short fuse sometimes. If we broadcast a small problem, it becomes a big problem.
There is a proverb, that goes, if the king spends all his time listening to his servants speaking, he will hear them curse him. The point being that the king should overlook such stuff and nonsense, as he has more important matters to attend to.
There is another proverb, discretion is the better part of valour. Its sometime better to ignore someone. In Ice Hockey they have the sin bin for someone to cool off. If someone has a bee in their bonnet about oneself, best to ignore them or give them space to cool off or come to their senses. If they never come to their senses, then that is their problem. I don't know if Ihub has a shrink board!!
People will always be people. One just has to laugh - this includes laughing at oneself sometimes - because we all get bees in our bonnets of small issues.