I'll take your word for it being in a good way, I don't know who Big J is, but I did a search for him/her and they haven't posted anything since 17 Nov. I'm kind of new and just trying to make friends and learn during my week off. Will pretty much only be here during evening hours starting next week. May be able to pop in from time to time during the day.
I just believe in IFSL. I've had some losses and gains and with each one I have learned. I hate pumpers and bashers, I hate dishonest people, OK I don't hate anyone.
What I try to live by.
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none
William Shakespeare
May the force be with us, Flo-Be-Wan
All post are JMO