Good to hear from you MB glade you are happy.
No need to rush for marriage it's just a piece of paper, for me the marriage is more for the families and less for me.
My wife she don’t care about that, but we finally did it no big deference if you ask me.
Just be aware during the pregnancy for strange request other then that it's cool.
I was a bit concerned when you say your girl is "smart, successful woman"
That defiantly shatters my theory, what a hot lady can find in a Canadian alcoholic man like you? I guess I really don’t know you (: .
"some pointers on this whole fatherhood" I can give you some; first thing don’t listing to people you don’t know so well, or you think you know for example atoalbump will give you some point of view since he have kids but always make a distinguish from the "SH" to the "FACH" that very imported you know the "SH" will do it all and will say it all the "FACH" is the one you want to be since they didn’t change or loss there soul during dramatic events in there life.
Ok man I need to go I just hope you are still massively drinking and can still handle it all, tell your girl to go easy on you (:
Se you bro`
Tsafi
Ho I forget "SH" mean "Slavery Husband" .
"FACH" mean "Fun And Cool Husband"