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Congrats on your daughter's soccer success!
My niece just made varsity softball as a freshman. She's one of three girls, and their dad is a huge sports fan, so they all can outperform a lot of fellas (and strike me out too - which isn't hard).
These thoughts are just mine, not right, not wrong, just thoughts. Invest in what you believe in, not what I believe in. Do your research, and invest in the facts.