OT: You actually just answered your own question....girls shouldn't need ideas to get guys to like them....they should just be who they are - whether its easy or the challenge. I can't say anything...I was THE challenge for just about anyone I ever dated, then hubby basically got it in 3 dates. Of course, we got married three months later (and no, I was not pregnant) and are about to celebrate 11 years.
So see, not all easy ones are a bad deal - LOL
Same thing applies with guys though - I hated the ones who had all of these moves to get girls. I always liked the shy ones who were just natural....I turned the head games on the ones who thought they were hot $_it and took them down a notch or two. Those were the days - WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Mama and Daddy always said it's how you play the game - trade to trade well and the rest will fall into place ;-)