fly,
I respect anyone's right to do their own DD and to keep it private. When one goes to the trouble of finding out information on their own, one does not have any obligation to share. But that's only if they keep it private.
BUT...if one posts that information on a public message board, then one has, IMO, a duty to post links and names and phone numbers and e-mail addresses, etc etc to verify what it is they have gathered.
And BTW, thanks for the defense on the name-calling, but it honestly didn't bother me. I just kind of laughed. I wasn't sure if I was being called a man or a dyke, but either label on me is totally hilarious....as any man I've ever been involved with could gladly verify. LOL!
