It's critically important to seek and pursue the RC mode. It's also vital to acknowledge that this is not the same as trying to 'force' it - that NEVER works, and often leads to frustration and disappointment. It actually means to pursue it from your own perspective. If you seek and find, then great - if not, that is fine also, as it defines what was meant to be and what was not meant to be. Having something 'artificial' is of no value as it will not just automatically become 'real' someday - it's a burden that will NOT lead to happiness (in fact, it often backfires). Why would anyone want to carry a burden on their shoulders? If something doesn't lead to real happiness, then why even bother with it?
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