OT, and not directed to conversations on this board, we each have the right to think and react to the events as we choose.
"SCENARIO FOR A WINNER"
A WINNER SAYS, "LET'S FIND OUT;"
A LOSER SAYS "NOBODY KNOWS."
A WINNER MAKES COMMITMENTS,
A LOSER MAKES PROMISES.
A WINNER SAYS, "I'M GOOD, BUT NOT AS GOOD AS I OUGHT TO BE,"
A LOOSER SAYS, "I'M NOT AS BAD AS A LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE."
A WINNER CREDITS HIS "GOOD LUCK" FOR WINNING--EVEN THOUGH IT WASN'T HIS GOOD LUCK:
A LOSER BLAMES HIS "BAD LUCK" FOR LOSING--EVEN THOUGH IT WASN'T HIS BAD LUCK.
A WINNER LISTENS;
A LOSER JUST WAITS UNTIL IT'S HIS TURN TO TALK.
A WINNER RESPECTS THOSE WHO ARE SUPERIOR TO HIM AND TRIES TO LEARN FROM THEM;
A LOSER RESENTS THE SUPERIORITY OF OTHERS AND TRIES TO FIND CHINKS IN THEIR ARMOR.
A WINNER DOES MORE THAN HIS JOB;
A LOSER SAYS "I ONLY WORK HERE."
A WINNER SAY'S "I FELL.'
A LOSER SAYS, "SOMEBODY PUSHED ME."