when i was learning how to talk , i discovered it mattered not so much what you said, but how you said it....
on paper, with printed words, it matters how you respond and what you address or don't address ......
i read a lot of infighting last night on boards, and most people were fencing
Fencing indicates reference to the other person's attacks and giving blows and counter-blows,
Instead of fencing, with reference to personality interpretations and motives etc, maybe just try plain vanilla answers without any defence of ego.
That can be hard to those with huge vulnerable ego,
but not so hard as we learn to "let it be"
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