CTW...is that the same as "it's OK to rape a woman, who has nice legs and big boobs, because she wears a short skirt or a tight sweater?
METHINKS you are 'blaming the victim' here....it is up to whoever it was that emailed GLL to take responsibility for his actions.....after all, he made the decision to do what he did...lack of self control? going off the deep end? He sure didn;t sound sane and stable to me...
What you are asking is that a person should NOT 'be themselves' for fear that others, who are too weak thru a lack of self esteem, or self control, will not be able to accept the other, without hurting themselves in the process.
Even Jesus taught that one should never hide their light---meaning--I am SURE you know---one should be who they ARE...not what someone else defines FOR them, or insists that they "SHOULD' be.
Just thought I would share my opinion, as you did....and adding to my opinion, I wish to say, yours opens many doors for rebuttal.....
Now, we have a rule on this board, perhaps as it SEEMS you may be new to the board, let me just share this with you....This baord does not condone personal attacks...as a matter of course, the first thing we do is warn you, then we delete the attack message, then we ban you from the board. We have NEVER had to ban ANYone from this board...but we do delete messages occasionally..
Tonight, consider yourself warned.
Have a nice rest of the evening, or day.
AI
