Like i said i haven't read any reddit of her and likely won't. That said i think all you said there sounds like good common sense. The type of comment you mention is sadly not at all surprising. Australia now is in the throes of trying to cool the domestic violence scene again. Many more men are waking to their own problems, and there are waiting lists for men now finally asking to get into help programs. Waiting list of months.
It was Plato who said, “He, O men, is the wisest, who like Socrates, knows that his wisdom is in truth worth nothing”