Well, I guess everyone has a different story to tell...
Can you imagine being married to someone like him? He'll bitch at you for never having his dinner ready on time but hasn't made the bed in ten years. Every woman hates men like him.
I was with my ex for a long time and we started out all lovey dovey but as the years piled on it began to take its toll on our relationship. I allowed her to be in charge because that's what she wanted. She paid the bills, made the phone calls and even helped me negotiate business contracts. I was kind of soft when it came to that stuff but she was cold, hard and calculating. That may sound a little callous but it is why I loved her so much.
I got so used to giving her the reins that I kind of lost my way with everything. I immersed myself in my work and let her call all the shots.. After we built her salon and I started spending a lot more time away from home working out of town or on my rental houses, things really went south. I mean, I would still make or buy some dinners, do the laundry and clean up stuff when I was home but a lot of times I was passed out drunk by the time she got in so we were not sharing the experience together anymore. That is what ruined it for me.
I can't ever reconcile or take it all back because that's never happening but I always can learn from my mistakes. Some people just don't.
Don't be unfair to B4. Even though he has a different way of seeing things on a political scale our personal problems are sometimes our own business.. Not everyone is willing to share their life stories like I do so you can't just assume everything, even though I don't think you're too far off the mark..
