I'm so sorry. Oh man I wish I had some magic words for you but I don't. I remember about maybe 8 years ago? Told my Wife when we were shopping for clothes for me, where are the solid darker colored shirts? What is this crap? Do you realize this is a movement going on and people can't see it? One step at a time. I admit I analyze everything and that has it's good and bad parts to it but in this case I was able to spot the pattern taking place. God doesn't make mistakes!