You can only know what you know, and then you have to make choices. I think there aren't really answers, only choices. Act how you act, be who you're going to be-
“Hey, don’t worry; don’t be afraid, ever. Because this is just a ride…. And we can change it any time we want. It’s only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings of money. Just a simple choice, right now, between FEAR and LOVE.” - Bill Hicks