as I sit and read some things I see this applies to many: here's what I'm seeing............. One says...this " ;-) " is a wink with a smile someone else says: NO, I disaGREE! THAT'S A FROG and 1st One says again NO ...this " ;-) " IS A WINK WITH A SMILE it's obvious it's a wink with a smile...I mean heck you can literally see it is....everyone can.... all while someone else says NO IT'S A FROG BLAH BLÑAH BLAH mebbe they're wearing some joke glasses with frogs embedded in the lens and that's all they can see........ kinda how it looks from here... because the 1st One is right....it IS a wink with a smile ;-)