Slevy, I wish you the best with your circumstances. I'm sure you will find that when it comes to investing, timelines get moved and can be based on a totality of events. Some events can be controlled and others can't. Some simple questions for you, have you ever had any remodeling done to your home? Did the contractors give you a window of time that things would be done, or did they tell you an exact date??
Good luck and keep it real! Please realize all my post are just an opinion on a message board. Always perform your own research in addition to listening and being nice to one another.